Sacred Deathcare Guide

What is Sacred Deathcare?

Sacred Deathcare is a soul-based approach that cares for our souls as well as our bodies, and for the dead as well as the living

Mainstream medicine gives us many valuable gifts, but a model that only treats the physical body and ignores the very real, non-physical experiences of the soul, is missing half the picture.

Sacred Deathcare gives language and structure to the non-ordinary experiences that happen around dying, death, and dead people. It provides a framework for understanding the spiritual dynamics of death and loss, and offers practical healing tools to help navigate these experiences with grace and ease.

How is a Sacred Deathcare Guide different from a Death Doula?

A Sacred Deathcare Guide may also be a Death Doula, but a Death Doula is not necessarily a Sacred Deathcare Guide.

As a Death Doula, they are trained to keep their own perspective out of the process, and follow the spiritual perspective and values of the dying person and their family.

Of course, practitioners must never override the family’s viewpoint or desires. But the reality is that there are many people who internally resonate with nature-based spirituality, and want to meet death in a sacred way, but aren’t able to articulate what they believe or need.

A Sacred Deathcare Guide will serve as a kind of “Clergy for the Unchurched.” We have the tools, skills, and medicine body to offer grounded, nature-based spiritual leadership and direction. We provide families with language and maps that align with their spiritual values and intentions, we will truly act as a guide in service to their journey.

Sacred Deathcare Guides:

  • Bring an inclusive, nature-based spiritual framework to the soul’s journey through death and loss.

  • Help dying people and their families awaken a new relationship to themselves, their experiences, and their world.

  • Tend to the journey from this world to the next, guiding people through the spiritual and energetic experiences of death and loss.

  • Hold a sacred container where the mysteries of life and death unfold, facilitating healing and transformation.

  • Illuminate the path through the shadows of grief, fear, and unresolved loss, offering a new/old picture for meeting death.

  • Hold a sacred container where the mysteries of life and death unfold, facilitating healing and transformation.

  • Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD) is a deeply personal choice — one made with courage, reflection, and care. For those who choose this path, the journey toward death can be both intentional and sacred. My role is to walk beside you and your loved ones with gentleness, respect, and presence.

    As a trained End-of-Life Practitioner and Sacred Deathcare Guide, I offer non-medical support before, during, and after a MAiD experience. This may include:

    • Emotional and spiritual preparation — holding space for conversations, fears, questions, and hopes.

    • Creating meaningful ritual or ceremony — personalized to reflect your values, beliefs, or simply the feeling you want the day to hold.

    • Companioning during the process — a calm, grounded presence for you and/or your loved ones in the hours leading up to, and during, MAiD.

    • Support for family and friends — both beforehand and in the days that follow, offering gentle grief support and ceremony if desired.

    Whether you are the individual choosing MAiD or a loved one walking alongside, you do not have to navigate this alone. I am here to support with care, without judgment, and with the deep belief that this final chapter can be held with grace, dignity, and love.

  • Grief and anticipatory loss affect the entire family. I also extend my care to family members and caregivers, offering guidance, comfort, and resources to help them navigate this profound transition. My goal is to create a space where everyone feels supported and heard, fostering meaningful moments of connection and closure.

    The end-of-life process can be filled with complex emotions—fear, grief, and sometimes uncertainty. I provide a calm and steady presence, offering a safe space for these emotions to be expressed and acknowledged. Whether through active listening, guided meditations, or creating meaningful rituals, I support you in finding peace and acceptance during this time.

  • I work closely with individuals to understand their end-of-life preferences, helping them craft a plan that honors their wishes and values. From preferred care settings to legacy projects, I advocate for your needs and ensure that you or your loved one is treated with dignity and respect throughout the process.

  • Item description

  • Reiki Healing during the Dying Process: Comfort and Peace in Transition

    The dying process can be a deeply emotional and challenging time for both individuals and their loved ones. Reiki offers gentle, compassionate support that can enhance the experience of dying, promoting peace and comfort in this final transition.

    Benefits of Reiki during the Dying Process:

    Emotional Comfort:

    Reiki provides a calming presence, helping to alleviate feelings of anxiety, fear, and uncertainty. The soothing energy encourages emotional release, allowing individuals to process their feelings in a safe and supportive environment.

    Physical Relaxation and Pain Relief:

    Reiki can help reduce physical discomfort and pain associated with the dying process. By promoting relaxation, it aids in easing tension in the body and can enhance overall comfort during this sensitive time.

    Facilitating Connection:

    Reiki encourages a deeper connection with one’s self and with loved ones. As the body begins to transition, Reiki can help individuals feel more grounded, allowing for meaningful conversations and connections with family and friends.

    Spiritual Support:

    Many people find comfort in the spiritual aspect of Reiki. It can help individuals explore their feelings about life, death, and what may lie beyond, providing a sense of peace and acceptance as they near the end of their journey.

    Creating a Peaceful Environment:

    Reiki fosters a serene atmosphere, which can enhance the overall experience of dying. The calming energy can help create a peaceful setting for both the individual and their loved ones, allowing for moments of reflection, connection, and closure.

    Support for Caregivers and Loved Ones:

    Reiki not only benefits the individual who is dying but also offers support for caregivers and family members. It helps ease their stress and emotional burden, providing a shared space of healing and tranquility during a difficult time.

    Reiki serves as a gentle and nurturing approach to support individuals and their loved ones through the dying process, enhancing comfort, peace, and connection as they navigate this profound journey.

We labor to death the same as we labor to birth, death is just as a beautiful of a process,

if you let it be. I can help you let it be.

Together we will discover what kind of “death” is meaningful for you.

As a Sacred Deathcare guide, I offer gentle, compassionate support to individuals and their loved ones as they approach the end of life.

This sacred time can bring both challenges and opportunities for reflection, connection, and healing.

My role is to provide emotional, spiritual, and practical assistance, helping to ease the journey for everyone involved.